Over my 28 years in the real estate business, my senior clients have taught me much about living life. Some lessons exposed warning signs and others provided a direction or path to happiness and prosperity. I have had the opportunity to meet so many wonderful folks who have shared stories of happiness, and some of sadness. One common thread running through all of my clients is the strong urge to live a life of meaning and to feel needed by others.

I am amazed at the strength that so many possess when confronted with loss; loss of spouse, loss of health, and loss in some cases of needed financial savings. I wonder in so many cases how I would hold up to some pretty challenging pressures. I am convinced that those with these challenges do much better if there are a circle of family and friends giving strength and guidance. It is so important to maintain relationships with those who care about you most. Friends and family are the backbone necessary to getting through those tough times when it seems that your energy is being tapped by adversity. The lesson’don’t go it alone! Get all of the help and backing available. Put pride aside and accept help when offered!

The happiest senior clients I have seemed to be the busiest. They stay connected to life by helping others and staying active. Active can mean travel, volunteering, sports, walking, bike riding, religious involvement and so many other avenues available. I realize that good health is critical to many of these activities, but even compromised health can still offer many avenues for hobbies and giving to others. The lesson here is to stay in the game of life. Stay connected to others. Find ways to share your life stories with those who would love to be your friend. Again, too often I see pride and isolation standing in the way of happiness and fulfillment.

In summary, we all need to feel needed as well as our built in desire to connect with others. Isolation contributes to negative health issues as well as depression. Staying connected to family and friends is essential to a healthy and productive life. Being active through hobbies, sports, and volunteering will add years to your life as well as contribute to happiness and good health. Begin today and start to see the results. Stay in the game of life and you’ll see the positive results that so many of my senior clients enjoy!